Others take things slower and it could be years before they take that next step. You discuss the future, you share your hopes, dreams, and plans for the future with one another. Some people meet, fall in love, and get engaged quickly.
Being honest with ourselves, we know that every relationship has its own path.(The average length of courtships in the study was two years, four months)…Speed can become a problem when it is driven by romance and fantasy because, unless one is extraordinarily lucky, the suitors discover that the partner was not as lovely as they had imagined.Long courtships, Huston argues, are rarely long because the partners are exercising due caution.I mean, take dining out at restaurants for example: Unless you exhibit great self-control and social skills, nobody likes waiting for his or her food to get prepared when out to eat.Think about how regal it would be to park your ass down at Ruth's Chris, order the filet and — possible.