But this shouldn’t make any difference to your own life and your own sense of self-worth.
After all, we all have our own path in life, our own unique set of circumstances, talents, abilities and opportunities.
What bothers me is that he talks to her more than he talks to any of his other friends. More than anything else, I'm hearing that you are afraid of all the "what if's" associated with your fiancé in this relationship. Is there an underlying feeling of distrust there that is building up inside of you?
It is very common in a divorce situation or with a past girlfriend to have to deal with a relationship that still exists.
As I point out in my audio program “20 Laws of Successful Relationships”, being jealous of your partners’ ex and comparing yourself to an ex is pointless and even harmful to your own self-esteem and your present relationship.
Wondering if that person who was in your partner’s past was better than you, more attractive than you and had a better romantic time and emotional connection with your current partner than you do is unhealthy for many reasons.
My ex and I have been separated for 2 yrs and divorced for 1 yr. We had a lot of problems and I felt that he didn't want to communicate or cooperate and try to fix them.
I would say that that is the ideal, but not always the practical or realistic expectation - especially for the new girlfriend or wife.Boyfriend Jealous Of Exhusband The best advice right now would be to allow him a little space to cool down off keep away from the time is right initiate along with him another time.A simple phone call to assess him and check out how scenario and how he does is all that might be necessary.I know I need to keep my mouth shut because I probably just subconsciously want something I can no longer have. It wasn't working before because he could be really nice one day and a total jerk the next. He has a horrible temper and refused to communicate even though I suggested counseling. He kept it in for a long time and finally told me what she'd said in a fight.The thought that he could possibly make it work with someone when he couldn't with me just irks me I guess. He has a horrible temper and refused to communicate even though I suggested counseling. I imagine that's why he always called to check in on me when he wasn't there.